I recall
having to retrieve the car after it was impounded from the house. I thought
then that I should have just left it there at the junkyard where it had been
towed. It cost me at least $150, not much more than the value of the
automobile. But they were charging me a daily fee for storage and I am a rule
follower. So, I paid the fine and brought it home. I was at least able to sell
it for $1100 and recoup some of my expenses.
When I
returned to Matt’s hospital room, I was shocked to see two detectives sitting
in his room. They had been in his room most of the morning asking questions. In
fact, they informed me that My son had already confessed to the robberies. He
sure picked a heck of a time to start telling the truth. There was no attorney
present and Matt was barely out of recovery, but there was nothing I could do.
I asked if he should have a lawyer present and the detectives informed me that
he had agreed to answer questions without an attorney. Lord, what do I do now?
I did not even know Matt’s story and here he was telling it to detectives
without an attorney present. I had seen all kinds of television shows and even
bailed Matt out of jail a few times, but even with my limited knowledge I knew
not to talk to anyone without proper counsel.
I stepped
outside the room and called Joe. He was furious and told me to get him to stop.
When I entered the room to tell the detectives, they informed me that Matt was
an adult and able to make his own decisions. Really? Are they kidding? This was
a man child who might have robbed a pharmacy with his grandmother’s Taurus, who
had been using drugs since 15 and was functioning at that mental level, who
agreed to talk without counsel, and most importantly…. had just come out of a
major surgery and anesthesia no less than 8 hours ago.
The
detectives could sense my angst with the situation since I kept interrupting
and asking my own set of questions. They concluded the questioning shortly
after I entered the room. I’m sure they had enough information to send my son
to God only knows where for God only knows how long. I took a deep breath, said
a prayer, and continued to hide my concerns. I knew the detectives were just
doing their job. I knew that they needed to solve a robbery. What I didn’t know
was that they would later try to convict Matt for a series of pharmacy
robberies in which he was not involved.
As Matt lay
in the hospital recuperating from his injuries, his dad and I wrestled with the
situation and the plans for the future. Since Matt would not listen to us, we
combed our minds for someone who might be able to reach his inner thoughts,
someone he would listen to, someone he would respect. It’s divine the way the
Holy Spirit works at times because Joe and I thought of the same person at
almost the same time, a minister friend who just happened to be married to
Joe’s boss. He was an older gentleman with a calm nature who was extremely
knowledgeable about the Bible. Joe agreed to call Doug first thing in the
morning.
At around
9:30 the next day, Joe received a phone call in his office. On the other line
was Doug who was telling Joe what a nice visit he had just had with Matt. Doug said he had a strong urge to visit Matt
in the hospital and had followed through with the nudge. Stunned, Joe replied,
“Well, Doug that was just your Boss (God) telling you to go to work. I was just
about to call and ask you to visit Matt. What a coincidence!”
Joe
explained that he and I had both decided that Doug would be the perfect person
to talk to Matt. To that, Doug replied,
“Well, you know, I don’t believe in coincidence. A coincidence is just a miracle that happens
when God doesn’t want to take the credit.” Joe had never heard that expression
before and neither had I at that point. Later that weekend I was preparing for
a Bible Study I was facilitating by Beth Moore. As I was previewing the DVD for
the lesson, Joe entered the room. Just as he did Beth utters the same words,
word for word. “A coincidence is just a miracle that happens when God doesn’t
want to take the credit. “Her words brought Joe to a standstill. Doug was right, there is no such thing as a
coincidence. Hearing those words of
assurance twice in three day was simply a little “wink” from God. Even in the
middle of chaos, God assures us that He is still in control.
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